Skinner Cemetery & Tomb
Equality Township
Section 26, Township 41 North, Range 15 West
Miller County, MO.
This cemetery is 2.5 miles
East of Junctions 54 & 52 at El-Rancho going toward Tuscumbia. It is located on the right side of Hwy
52. It is fenced, but not kept and no
longer in use.
Personally inventoried by
Dianna (Hale) Mattingly & Glenda (May) Crawford & Bobbie (Burks) Bradshaw
- April 2000
For any information or
corrections, please contact me at: deestarr47@gmail.com
***In addition, at the end of
the listing I inserted a History of the Skinner Tomb and Cemetery by Peggy
Smith Hake
Children of James Edward Sr. &
Lucy Miriam (Folsom) Skinner:
Isabella, Ellen,
Mary, James Jr., Lucy and Hattie.
Isabella Skinner married
Charles H. Clarke
Ellen Skinner married Robert
L. Smith in December 1889
Mary E. Skinner married
Benjamin F. Vaughan in October 1890
James Edward Skinner, Jr.
married Nellie L. Thompson in September 1895
Hattie Skinner married Ivy G.
Duncan in November 1901.
Bratton, Levi C. M.
died – 11 May 1886 - age –
30y1m
Miller County Death Records
broken stone
broken stone
Clarke, Isabella (Skinner)
25 Sept. 1860 – 2 May 1886
d/o James Edward Skinner Sr. &
Lucy Mariam (Folsom) Skinner
w/o Charles H. Clarke – from
England
Clarke, James (Infant)
8 Feb. 1879 – 25 June 1880
s/o Charles H. Clarke & Isabella
(Skinner) Clarke
I. C
stone broke- no info
Skinner, James Edward
29 Sept. 1876 – 11 Aug. 1951
s/o James Skinner & Lucy
(Forsum) Skinner
h/o Nellie Lee (Thomson) –
wed 8 Sept. 1895
h/o Edna
Skinner, James Edward Sr. (Vault)
29 Sept. 1833 - 1 May 1916 born
Cook County, England
s/o Samuel Skinner &
Harriet (Mullins) Skinner – both born in England
h/o Lucy Miriam (Folsom) 1907 it is said that James and Lucy are buried in
the vault.
Skinner, Lucy (Infant)
1 Mar. 1871 – 9 Mar. 1876
d/o James E. Skinner &
Lucy Mariam (Folsom) Skinner
Skinner, Lucy M. (Folsome)
5 Aug. 1844 – 2 Oct. 1918
d/o W. A. Folsome
w/o James Edward Skinner Sr.
Skinner, Nellie Lee (Thomson)
1 July 1875 - 8 Aug. 1912
d/o Daniel Frazer Thomson
& Eliza Catherine (Melton) Thompson
w/o James Edward Skinner Jr. –
wed 8 Sept. 1895
stone broken – dates from
obituary & death certificate
Last update: 2020
© 2000 by Dianna Hale-Mattingly
SKINNER'S TOMB
By Peggy Smith Hake
“Howdy-do old Skinner, how are you doing in there?” . . . . . I
once heard my grandfather utter those words as we were traveling up Highway 52
on our way to Eldon. Surprised, I said, ”Why did you say that?” With a twinkle
in his eye, Granddad told me that he always sent his greeting to old Jim
Skinner every time he passed by. All I saw that day was a stone structure
sitting in a small cemetery and I was amazed to learn he was speaking to
someone or something in that old graveyard!
The years passed by and I forgot about Granddad’s hearty
“howdy-do”, but not long ago someone asked me if I had ever researched the
story of the Skinner Tomb. The years melted away and once again I recalled
those words of long ago, so I decided to be inquisitive and in the process I
learned a wonderful story of an Englishman who settled in Miller County after
the Civil War and lived the remaining years of his life in northern Equality Township
in the Flatwoods community and in the city of Eldon.
James Edward Skinner Sr. was born in Cook County, England near
London circa 1834. As a young child of seven years James, his parents, and a
brother named Tom, set sail for America to seek a new homeland. Enroute his
father died at sea, so his mother found herself in New York, a stranger with
two small children, no money, and no way of supporting herself. She bound out
young James to a wealthy New York family where he worked as a servant for the next
14 years.
After serving his term of indenture, James Skinner went out into
the world on his own and traveled to Schenectady, New York where he met his
future wife, Lucy Miriam Folsom. Lucy was a cousin to Mrs. Grover Cleveland (Francess Folsom Cleveland), wife of America’s 22nd
president. President Cleveland was 27 years older than Frances when he married
her at the White House in Washington D.C. in 1886. I have wondered if James and
Lucy Skinner may have attended this wedding, but I could find no proof that
they were in attendance.
At the age of 24 years, approximately in 1859, James and Lucy
moved to Palmyra, Wisc. They did not stay there long until they moved on
westward to Pettis County, Missouri, settling in Sedalia. James was a talented
carpenter by trade and built what may have been the first house in Sedalia.
Their first child, Isabella, was born and was reputed to have been the first
white child born there. Two other children were born to them while in Sedalia,
but died in infancy. While in Sedalia, he went into the mercantile business but
was burned out during the Civil War. After the war, they moved to Knob Noster where he operated a saloon for several years.
Their next move was to Miller County where they settled in
Equality Township a few miles northwest of Tuscumbia. In 1868, James had
purchased 80 acres of land in this area from William A. Folsom (the father of
Lucy Skinner). The Folsoms were living on an
adjoining farm to the Skinners in the 1880 census. Jim and Lucy Skinner were enumerated
in the 1870 census of Miller County but the Folsoms
were not found, so evidently they had purchased land in Miller County in the
1860’s but did not move here from New York until after 1870. Lucy Folsom
Skinner probably wanted her elderly parents near them after they settled in the
county. James Skinner purchased many other tracts of land in various parts of
the county and became one of the largest land owners in the region.
After moving into Miller County, five more children were born to
James and Lucy Skinner: Ellen, Mary, James Jr., Lucy and Hattie. James built a
large log house with a huge fireplace and a shed on the side. He had brought a
horse, a cow, and a team of oxen with him from Pettis County and housed them in
the attached shed. It was thought by a few that Jim brought a lot of money here
with him and kept it hidden in a beer keg. Pure speculation.
He became prosperous, acquiring much property and he hired
farmhands who worked his farm clearing the land and making rails. Jim Skinner
also built his father and mother-in-law a log home nearby and Mrs. Folsom was
always on hand, assisting in all the births of Lucy’s children born in Miller
County.
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When their daughter Lucy died, at the age of 5 years in 1876,
Jim fenced off a plot near their home and it was there the Skinner Cemetery
originated. A few years later, Jim started to build a new house farther up the
hillside. They first lived in the basement area, built of bricks made by Jim
and his farm employees. Later the large white house was built over the basement
where it now stands. All the lumber was hauled from Moniteau County near
California by an oxen team.
There was no school in the area, and Jim donated land so one
could be erected. He and Lucy were both educated folk and wanted the same for
their children. HE built the school himself and called it Skinner School.
Anyone who has traveled Highway 52 north from Tuscumbia has passed this school many
times. It is still standing and was the Skinner Ridge Plants and Greenhouse
(1987). Today it is a residence (2014).
Isabella, the oldest daughter, married Charles H. Clarke, an
Englishman, and they lived in the village of Tuscumbia. After eight years of
marriage and the birth of three children, Isabella died in 1886 at the young
age of 25 years. She is buried beside her son, James, in the Skinner Family
Cemetery. The other children of James and Lucy Skinner married Miller County
natives including: Ellen Skinner married Robert L. Smith in December 1889; Mary
E. Skinner married Benjamin F. Vaughan in October 1890; James E. Skinner, Jr.
married Nellie L. Thompson in September 1895; and Hattie Skinner married Ivy G.
Duncan in November 1901. Jim and Lucy reared the two surviving daughters of
Isabella Skinner Clarke—Louie and Lillie Clarke, who were ages 5 and 3 when
their mother died in 1886. Louie Clarke Lawson, many years the Real Rural
Rustlers correspondent for the Autogram-Sentinel, was one of the granddaughters
reared by Jim and Lucy Skinner.
The Skinners were fond of cedar trees and had many different
species in their yard. Jim built their coffins from the cedar wood on the farm
and it was said the wood was so hard that a nail could not be driven into it,
but somehow he got the coffins properly lined and the handles attached as well.
In later years, after the turn of the century, the Skinners sold
their farm land and moved into Eldon. They sold 578 acres to Fred and Mary
Neubauer in 1900 and in 1903 the Neubauers sold the
same acreage to the Daniel Heafey family of Warren County, Iowa. It remains in
the Heafey family today (1987), owned by the children of Daniel Heafey. During
this era, Jim built the large cement tomb inside the Skinner Family Cemetery and
it was to be his final resting place. The caskets he built had glass tops that
were air-tight and the front door of the sepulcher was also made of glass.
Old Jim was quite a character! It was said that he would build
awhile on his coffin, stop, and then lie down in it for awhile. He wanted to be
sure it was going to be large enough and comfortable enough for his final rest!
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Today there are four generations buried in the Skinner Cemetery.
Jim Skinner stated that he wanted to be laid to rest in his tomb alongside the
road so his many friends could drop by and see him or just greet him on their
trips up and down the roadway. Over the years, it was a common practice for
everyone who passed by to yell “Hello, old Skinner, how are you doing in
there?”
One of the most delightful stories has been told about Jim’s
tomb…Joe Heafey, who was living on the land put a scare into a group of young
roughnecks one night. The boys went up to the vault late on a dark night,
peered inside, and yelled, “Hey, Old Skinner, how are you?” Joe Heafey had
hidden behind the tomb and in a gruff voice said, “Why boys, I’m doing just
fine, thank you.” Needless to say they sobered up real quick, riding their
horses non-stop into town! Old Jim Skinner would have enjoyed that little
episode more than anyone else!
Today the vault stands on the south side of Highway 52,
overgrown with weeds in the summer months; protected by the stately cedars,
which Jim Skinner loved, in the wintertime. The glass door is no longer there,
having been permanently sealed with concrete in 1957. So now James and Lucy
Skinner are at rest in their tomb standing near the home they built all those
years ago and far from his native English home he left almost a century and a
half ago, one of those countless number of immigrants who settled a new nation
in the early 19th century.